Yesterday I posted about Jesus’ tendency to tell things as they are, even if it meant calling people out on their sin.
If we are to follow Christ, it seems as if we should do the same thing.
This does not mean besmirching people’s character, or making up stuff, or being rude for the sake of being rude, but it does mean telling the truth.
If, in an effort to soften our verbiage, we end up lying, we are forsaking love’s delight in the truth.
Not only did Jesus Christ call people out, so did the Apostle Paul. There may be some who defend Jesus’ manner in calling people out by saying, “Well, yeah, He’s the Son of God, of course He can call us wicked and faithless.”
Well, Paul is not the Son of God, he’s a sinner like you and me, in fact, he calls himself the chief of sinners.
He calls himself that because Paul speaks the truth. Not only does he call other people stuff, he calls himself names!
In the book of Titus he says:
One of themselves, even a prophet of their own, said, the Cretians are alway liars, evil beasts, slow bellies. This witness is true.
In another fascinating passage, Acts 23:3, Paul says to the high priest
Then said Paul unto him, God shall smite thee, thou whited wall: for sittest thou to judge me after the law, and commandest me to be smitten contrary to the law?
Paul calls him a name, judges his performance, and calls upon God to smite him!
Paul later apologized for saying that to the high priest with the supposed defense that he did not know the guy was the high priest!
Paul is rather feisty. Jesus Christ was a tad feisty. People who speak the truth will be feisty, or at least come across that way.
Now, being feisty for feisty’s sake is not the issue. I’m not calling you to be a jerk and call people names.
What I am doing is saying that truth tends to hurt. If you speak the truth you will say things about people that they will not take kindly.
Most resentment and offendedness is a result of guilt. People who know they are sinners don’t like their sin to be pointed out. They want to live in the delusional world that they are sinning and getting away with it and everything is cool.
If you are an easily offended person, that’s because you are not walking in truth and righteousness. If you know you’re doing the right thing, what people accuse you of will bother you very little.
A sign of wisdom is listening to reproof and correction. Stupid people are the only ones who get offended at people correcting them, would be another way to put it.
This is a careful issue and I can easily be taken out of context. Hear what I’m saying.
My point is not that we should be judgmental jerks to people.
My point is to speak the truth and also, as you speak it, make sure you’re hearing it yourself. Start by dealing truthfully with your own sin before taking an interest in everyone else’s sin.