You can never be right with God. This is because you were born not right with God. Once you’re not right, you can’t right yourself. Only God can make straight what is crooked.
God revealed His Law to people to show them they are not right. We are unclean pretty much all the time just for natural bodily functions. Women, according to God’s Law not me, are like, ridiculously unclean.
But God’s point is this: because you are human you are unclean, tainted, messed up, and hopelessly lost.
Our only hope is to admit this fact. Not to try to fix ourselves, not to adjust our flesh accordingly and strive to be less uncleanish. No, our only recourse is to humbly cry out for mercy.
Lord, be merciful to me a sinner.
That’s our only hope. God is good. It is the goodness of God that leads men, and you sick constantly unclean women, to repentance.